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6 tips for helping kids navigate the divorce process

On Behalf of | Aug 16, 2023 | Family Law

Navigating the divorce process can be challenging for children. As a parent, you want this to go smoothly and you want your children to feel supported. But it’s not always easy to achieve this aim.

Fortunately, there are deliberate steps you can take to help them during this time. Below are several tips you can keep in mind to help your kids cope and adjust during your divorce.

Use open and honest communication

Explain the situation to your children in an age-appropriate and truthful manner. Encourage them to be open with you and to express their feelings, no matter what those feelings are. Reassure them that you and your spouse love them and that the divorce is not their fault.

Create stability, maintain routine

Routine schedules and general consistency can provide a sense of security for children amidst the changes from the divorce. Try to keep their daily routines, school schedules and extracurricular activities as stable as possible.

Avoid conflict in front of children

Minimize arguments or disagreements in the presence of your children. Create a respectful and calm environment when interacting with your ex-spouse, especially when the children are around. Do not blame your spouse for the divorce in front of the kids, even if you personally blame them.

Support their emotions

Encourage your children to express their feelings and talk through things. Don’t hesitate to validate their emotions. Give them a chance to ask questions. Let them know that it’s okay to feel sad, angry or confused. Provide a safe space for them to talk about their emotions.

Listen actively

Along with letting them ask questions, be an active listener when your children want to talk. Sometimes, they may just need someone who understands to listen without offering immediate advice or solutions.

Have patience and give it time

Remember that it takes time for kids to embrace a new situation and a new family dynamic. It won’t happen overnight. Be patient with your children and give them the time and space necessary for them to consider and process their feelings.

Remember that every child is unique, and their reactions to divorce will vary. By providing understanding, support and a stable environment, you can help your children navigate the divorce process with resilience and attentiveness to their emotional well-being.